No and no... i think japanese has a better way, when they first start going out, it's usually 7/3 or 6/4, because guys usually eat and drink more, that's the least guys should do instead of AA and it's a nice gesture that guys pay (at least on date 1)... i used to date someone simliar lor, and it's very painful because everytime we go out(his income is 5 times as mine, i need to worry that he's gonna make me pay...
My answers to Q1 and Q2 are "Yes" and "why not" respectively.
回覆刪除If you like him, it does not matter. Period.
EC
A1: NO
回覆刪除AA制比較適合朋友﹐不是情人。OK﹐如果他們並未是情人﹐男士更應大方一點。我也是絕對不喜歡全部要男士付錢﹐(特別未是男友時﹐) 因為我不喜歡欠別人甚麼。但﹐如果每次食完野都要計每人付幾多錢﹐那是十級煩的事。(少少錢﹐就算是朋友﹐都不會計啦!! 一人付就算啦。) 如果想公平些可以一人一次。(但如果又要計到盡一定是你一次我一次﹐又要記住每次幾多錢﹐邊個著數D﹐咁不如死左佢算啦。) 自己是怎樣的人自己明白﹐不用理會港女不港女。
A2﹕NO
那麼斤斤計較的人﹐好難相處。除非你朋友不介意。如果一餐要一千蚊﹐我會明白禮貌上要offer 分一半。但二十蚊都要分。我會想爆粗。好癡線。還有﹐不送回家不緊要﹐如果他沒有那個風度﹐但是因為二十蚊而唔送。咁叫佢去死吧。
(Elaine: 遇著呢D男人我會好火爆。請原諒。希望你朋友未喜歡上佢。如果係﹐那是件慘事。)
男人這東西，可以的話，還是選一個不太小家小器的吧。至少，在他剛泡你時。
回覆刪除I used to date someone similar. Even though he had changed a lot for me, I ended up dumping him.
回覆刪除"如果你覺得你的男人不愛你，不理他以什麼作藉口，他的確是不愛你，至少比你要求的少很多。"
.............想引我重出江湖囉。
回覆刪除如果叫都唔送返屋企，仲咁坦白講個咁既理由出黎，真係唔怕畀你知佢唔捨得使廿皮响你朋友身上
回覆刪除我想，在那機師的心目中，是妳朋友溝／高攀佢多過佢溝妳朋友
好多機師都覺得空姐“HAU“住佢地。。。。－＿－”
A小姐
No and no...
回覆刪除i think japanese has a better way, when they first start going out, it's usually 7/3 or 6/4, because guys usually eat and drink more, that's the least guys should do instead of AA and it's a nice gesture that guys pay (at least on date 1)...
i used to date someone simliar lor, and it's very painful because everytime we go out(his income is 5 times as mine, i need to worry that he's gonna make me pay...
未拍拖都咁斤斤計較...
回覆刪除拍左拖仲有好日子過???
祝你的朋友好運......
好明顯, 係你個朋友以為"被溝"。
回覆刪除只可以話, 個date好失敗,因為雙方都無做expectation management.
好明顯, 係你個朋友以為"被溝"。
回覆刪除只可以話, 個date好失敗,因為雙方都無做expectation management.
問題-:呢條也稱得上是問題嗎?你朋友吾係香港出世? 怕比人誤會?
回覆刪除問題二:No,我相信呢位機師吾會個個都吾送番屋企, 只係有時啲野講資格。既然如此,何必屈就?
我既答案都係NO x 2 呀! 我認為佢連基本男士的風度都冇呀,都已經唔係有冇錢既問題!
回覆刪除請普通女性朋友食飯,其實都係心意同風度的表現(當然唔係講話次次都係男仔比)!依家話係date當中,但竟然咩都唔知,我認為有點兒那過呢....
再者竟然因為20而唔送返屋企....啲個原因實在有點兒搞笑呢! 慳錢當然係一種美德,但愛護保護女朋友,我認為係一定要做loh...!!
唔好意思,可能語氣重咗啲...:p
咁你個空姐朋友有無試過幫個機師比過一餐錢先?
回覆刪除Abviously, he is npt that into her. 走la 朋友!
回覆刪除NO & NO!!
回覆刪除初時約會時，我覺得男方係需要幫女方俾埋，但過jor 段時期，女方應該醒水自動俾返。
有錢養車，而無錢俾 $20. . 希望佢唔會充大頭鬼。
A1: AA制是禮貌. 本人不介意請女伴吃飯睇戱, 但最低限度講聲多謝或起碼做小小show, at least offer to AA. 賣單時港女指定動作就是... 一點動作都沒有. 令人嘆息.
回覆刪除A2: 試試看遠一點. 如果是結婚對象: 或者這種省錢行為係一件好事. 如果只係想拍拖: 省錢行為會被看作cheap. 別講到生死那麼嚴重. 難道要妳自己回家會死嗎? 但我同意「不」的答案. 因為這機師實在不適合你的拍拖和做人要求.
提外話一. 不開車的人是不會明白過海塞車的苦處. 我明白風度呢一回事. 但請女士體諒一下開車過海的不方便程度. 從銅鑼灣到土瓜灣和西環是完全兩回事.
提外話二. 我好奇這機師是否外國人? 外國人(banker例外)可能比較習慣AA.
Simply, I just don't understand why the guy "shall" pay the gal's bill.
回覆刪除Can anyone refer me to any authority / article to support this "concept"?
EC
P.S.: To myself, I am just concerned the developement of love (if any) between the parties.
令人嘆息....好明顯.
回覆刪除你.朋.友.是.港.女。